When research indicates that more than half of all New Year’s resolutions won't make it past six months, "why should I even try?" sounds like a sensible question. I’ll tell you why. Because you have zero chance of keeping a resolution that you never make. So in 2016, why not take your chances? And if you don't last the course, don't think you've wasted your time - most successful people agree that you learn more from your failures than your wins.
Here are 10 resolutions inspired by the hundreds of college students I've worked with across the US. I've seen how doing these things has turned hesitant young people unsure of their place in the world into passionate, successful, confident graduates, entrepreneurs, activists and professionals. I hope they can help you too... however old you are and whatever your 2016 has in store.
- Don’t give up if you slip up. In the last few years I’ve observed a number of shared characteristics that successful young (and returning) students have in common. What makes them stand out is their ability to practice resilience – the ability to continue moving forward when faced with adversity – over and over again, until they get it right. So if your 2016 isn't going quite the way you hoped, regroup, learn from your mistakes and try again.
- Brand your future self, today. It might seem like “the real world” and your future career are far off... but they are closer than you think. What you do online today will echo in eternity. So start building your future brand today and get hired more quickly tomorrow.
- Hone your “soft skills”. While the job market for college grads has improved in 2015, many employers still report trouble finding qualified candidates. What’s the problem here? A lack of demonstrated soft skills. Resolve to bolster your academic studies with time spent developing your people, problem-solving, oral and written communication and leadership skills.
- Own something. The ability to take ownership is both a skill and a mindset. Employers desire and reward employees who exhibit this capacity. Now is the time in your life to demonstrate ownership. This could mean planning a fund-raising event from start to finish, creating your own blog (like Dianna Blake, our Pearson Students Blog Editor-in-Chief) or even starting your own non-profit (like Corey Geary, Pearson Campus Ambassador). Make it your own, invest in it (if only with your time and talent), then see it through to completion. Future employers will be impressed!
- Nurture your network. We’re all familiar with the adage: It’s not what you know, it’s who you know. Turns out, it's true; connections really do matter. So start building and nurturing your networks now and those connections will grow exponentially over the course of your professional career. Think campus organizations, honor societies like Phi Theta Kappa, or other professional organizations or causes you care about.
- Gain a global perspective. When we first meet our Pearson Student Advisory Board at our annual Pearson Student Summit, we use an ice-breaker that we call the timeline activity. We ask students to think about the experiences that helped shape the person they are today. Every year several students’ timelines include a trip outside of the U.S. or Canada. Their eyes glow as they relive far-off memories and offer perspectives gained only by immersing one’s self in another place, another culture. If you have an opportunity to travel outside of your home country, take it. If you don’t, then be a tourist in your own backyard. Exploring new places keeps your mind open to new possibilities, enhances your creativity, and helps you gain valuable perspective. Employers seek perspective in candidates.
- Healthy body, healthy mind. As stated by Dr. John Grohol, founder and CEO of Psych Central, “…the plain truth (is) that many people still do not “get” that your body’s physical health is interconnected and cannot be separated from your body’s mental health.” You don’t have to run a marathon; you simply need to get moving. Or cooking! Liz Croak, Pearson Campus Ambassador, shared some of her favorite, affordable healthy-eating tips earlier this year. Her advice includes sharing healthy meal prep with friends. And since social connections are another essential component to happiness and success, this resolution is like a two for one. You’ll be happier, healthier, and more successful.
- Ask for help. For many college students I know, this is one of most challenging resolutions, especially for minority, and first-generation college students who lack the financial, and sometimes emotional support from family members. When sticking to your priorities gets tricky, resolve to ask for help. Your school advisors, professors, personal and professional mentors, and many free organizations like org can help. So create your “go-to” list of helpers and mentors in 2016.
- Dance! It's true - according to Norman Doige, psychiatrist and author of The Brain’s Way of Healing, learning a new dance is one strategy to sharpen your mind. But for those not too fancy on their feet, any novel and taxing learning exercise will do the trick.
- Give back. Research repeatedly tells us that giving back is good for our mental well-being, our happiness, our physical wellness and that it provides purpose in our lives. Find opportunities to give back in 2016, even if it's just telling at least one person a day that they are important and appreciated. Clay Craig, one of our Pearson Campus Ambassadors, told me that he is resolving to do this; as a result, Clay is likely to experience an increase in happiness and life-satisfaction. Too shy to tell someone directly? Start a gratitude journal.
So if your 2016 isn't going quite the way you hoped, take a look back at this list and see if anything here might help. Being a successful student is like being successful at almost anything; it requires practice. So keep going, your epic year awaits - good luck!
Allison leads our student commuity activities in the US. Connect with her on Twitter: @AJTaken.read more