Embracing Change & Finding Your Place on Campus
I love my school: the town, the weather, and the people. It all feels like a home away from home. However, that hasn’t always been the case.
A Big Leap to a Big School
As an incoming first-year student, I was aware of what a huge leap it was in my life, and the town I can now see myself living in forever felt far less comfortable back then. I came to Auburn from out of state without a single friend to a school larger than thirty of my high schools combined.
Ultimately, a big, competitive school was the right choice for me. That’s not to say a small school isn’t the right option for others—that was my original choice until I made a last-minute leap to a big one. This post is about my experience getting involved at a big school where getting involved is competitive.
Facing My First Rejection
As a competitive high school snare drummer, it was my dream to bring my love for drumming to an awesome band like Auburn’s. I worked day in and day out to learn the music and technique. But I simply wasn’t ready for the line, and I got cut toward the end of auditions. In that moment, I realized I wouldn’t have the type of musical support system that had gotten me through high school to ease my transition to college.
I checked Auburn’s involvement website. I bookmarked everything that interested me and, for the most part, put it out of my mind until after orientation.
The Search for Connection
Attending orientation did little to calm my nerves. What if I didn’t make friends, connections, or lifelong memories? Those thoughts ran through my head, and they didn’t ease up in the first few months of school.
That’s when I decided to go all in on finding what I loved to do on campus. I tried everything from mock trial to jazz band.
To my chagrin, I kept getting rejected by the places where I thought I had a guaranteed spot. The only organization that extended me an offer was student media, and I had no idea what being a news anchor entailed.
The Turning Point
Even with no background in media, I went all in on what I could do. I anchored and worked hard at reporting. By the end of the semester, I had real work to show for it.
Additionally, I stayed involved with my church and tried to meet as many people as I could. Still, I didn’t quite feel at home yet.
Christmas break arrived, and I couldn’t wait to go home. But when I returned to school, it suddenly felt different. I had come to love it more than I realized by unknowingly investing in all that I could.
Love Your School, and It Will Love You Back
If you love your school, your work, and your life, they will love you back. And that’s all up to you. Thankfully, you’re at a time in your life when you can choose what that looks like for the first time.
Pursue what you love, and don’t get discouraged when you fall. You don’t have to give up something you love just because you fall once. I never gave up drumming, and now I’m in two bands just for fun.
That love pays off.
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