How to Find Your People in College
Starting college is a major transition. Suddenly, you’re surrounded by thousands of new faces, opportunities, and more independence than you’ve ever had before.
Although this is exciting, it can also be overwhelming. With so many people around, each with different goals, interests, and values, it may feel hard to fit in. One of the best ways to overcome this feeling is by finding a community of people who share your passions and goals.
My First Steps
When I first started college as a finance major, I knew I wanted to meet other students interested in business and finance. I just wasn’t sure where to begin. Like many first-year students, I was in a completely new world and was looking for ways to find my group.
I decided to attend a meeting for my university’s Investment Club while also rushing a fraternity. Through the Investment Club’s meetings, discussions, and social events, I met a group of people with the same interests. They motivated me to stay more disciplined and set clearer goals.
Rushing gave me a different but complementary kind of growth. I learned teamwork through rush events and figured out how to balance my social life and academics.
These organizations exposed me to new ideas and perspectives while helping me develop skills that aren’t always taught in the classroom. Furthermore, they have given me a group of people who are motivated to learn and grow together.
Broaden Your Search
Being around students with interests similar to mine has helped me stay engaged and continue my college career in the best way possible. I’ve also learned that finding a community isn’t just about finding one specific club. Some of my top college connections came from attending campus events, talking to people in class, and saying yes to new opportunities.
I spent my free time at campus events, career fairs, and playing basketball at the Student Recreation Center. Each experience introduced me to people from diverse backgrounds and with varied interests, which often led to friendships, mentorships, and connections that extended beyond the classroom. I quickly realized that finding your people isn’t about finding the perfect organization; it’s about being willing to show up and get involved.
The Benefits of Community
The benefits of surrounding yourself with like-minded people extend far beyond making friends. A community of motivated and supportive people helps you stay accountable, find new interests, and overcome challenges.
College is demanding, and having a group of people who understand your experiences can make a huge difference. The relationships you build can become some of the most valuable parts of your college experience.
It’s a Journey
It’s important to remember that finding your community doesn’t usually happen right away. You might have to attend several events, try different organizations, or step outside your comfort zone before you discover the right fit.
Every new experience teaches you something about yourself and helps you build connections along the way. Before you know it, that big, overwhelming campus will start to feel like home.
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