The first week of classes has its own extensive list of pros and cons. The dread of a potential icebreaker activity is definitely near the top of the cons list. I would argue that this dread is rather universal among college students.

Who wants to tell a stranger where they would go if they could time travel? It is easy to view this as a cheesy way to spend the first ten minutes of class. But with a little perspective, these random activities can become opportunities.

A Surprise Connection

On my very first day of college, I arrived early for my Psychology 101 class. I was nervous about where to sit and what to expect. I was anxious about starting my journey as a college student.

Then my professor asked us to share our favorite part of summer break with a neighbor. An awkward silence fell over the classroom, and then the girl next to me introduced herself.

We exchanged names and summer highlights. Before I knew it, we were discussing my interest in human development and family studies. That happened to be the same major as my new classmate, Kathy.

For the rest of the semester, we made small talk before class. We also participated in class discussions together.

Building a Support System

Little did I know that for the next four semesters I would see Kathy in my other classes, too. Now, I know her answers to countless icebreakers.

I also have an amazing class friend to sit with, share notes with, and study with. Kathy has supported me through difficult exams and assignments. She is a familiar face around campus and another reason to get up for class.

Embrace the Awkwardness

I encourage you to reconsider the dread associated with icebreakers. While they can be uncomfortable, they are a direct gateway to connection. Plus, everyone in the room is likely just as nervous as you are.

You do not need to find a best friend in every class. However, simply finding a familiar face can make a large lecture hall feel smaller. It makes the college experience less isolating.

So, next time a professor asks you to turn to your neighbor, take a second. Push past the hesitation and say hello. You might be about to meet a great class friend.

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