The tendency of main group elements to achieve a stable electron configuration, often resembling that of noble gases, drives their chemical reactivity. Main group metals typically lose electrons to attain the electron configuration of the nearest preceding noble gas. For instance, sodium (Na), with an atomic number of 11, seeks to lose one electron to match the electron count of neon (Ne), which has an atomic number of 10. By losing this electron, sodium achieves a stable configuration with 10 electrons.
Conversely, main group nonmetals tend to gain electrons to emulate the electron configuration of the nearest following noble gas. Taking sulfur (S) as an example, it has an atomic number of 16 and aims to gain two electrons to resemble argon (Ar), which has an atomic number of 18. This gain results in sulfur having 18 electrons, thus achieving stability.
The underlying reason for these electron transfers is the desire to fill the s and p subshells, leading to greater stability and reduced chemical reactivity. For example, lithium (Li) has the electron configuration of 1s² 2s¹, with one electron in its outer shell. Fluorine (F), on the other hand, has the configuration of 1s² 2s² 2p⁵, indicating it has seven electrons in its second shell. Lithium will lose its one outer electron, filling its s subshell and achieving a configuration similar to helium (He), which is stable with 2 electrons.
Fluorine, upon gaining the electron from lithium, becomes negatively charged and its configuration changes to 1s² 2s² 2p⁶, filling its p subshell. This configuration mirrors that of neon (Ne), which is stable with 10 electrons in total. Thus, both lithium and fluorine transform into ions that reflect the stable electron configurations of their respective noble gases, highlighting the fundamental goal of achieving filled outer shells for enhanced stability.